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So, you’re dating a woman now whose only sexual experiences have been with men that are pump and dumpers. For those of you who don’t know what a pump and dumper is: it’s what I call ‘minutemen.’

Not the minutemen from the Revolutionary War.. They get in, they thrust their hips, they pump a few times, and then they dump all their little men: all their little sea-men to swim all over the place.

A lot of women who are young (and some unfortunately that are older) have only been with pump and dumpers and they have no idea of how unbelievably amazing sex can be with an attentive, sexually aware man. They don’t know sex with a man that has been reading these blogs - a man that really knows that sex and foreplay start right inside a woman’s mind.

So let’s say you’ve done it all right. You’ve started with sex and foreplay, and you’ve seduced her mind and you have her all turned on. How do you encourage this woman – who is basically very submissive in bed due to the fact that all of her experience is with Mr. Pump and Dump?

The reason why she is submissive, much of the time, is that she has never explored her own sexuality. A lot of women that have had pump and dumpers don’t know what they want sexually, and they are usually women that have never masturbated. They don’t know what feels good and what doesn’t. Their only experience is with Mr. P & D.

For those of you who think he is related to P & G, you’re absolutely incorrect. Pump and Dump is not Proctor & Gamble - though I heard that Proctor & Gamble makes their products for pump and dumpers. But it’s just a rumor that I heard!

Anyway, how do you encourage this woman to open up to her own sexuality?

First of all, this woman may or may not have ever had an orgasm before. I would assume that she never has. She thinks she might be having an orgasm – it might be a momentary wave – but she is not having a full-blown orgasm.

If you ask her if she’s had an orgasm, and she says, “I think so” – there is no “I think so” when it comes down to orgasms. Either you’ve had one or you haven’t! If a woman will tell you that she thinks she had an orgasm, it means that she has probably only experienced a little wave of pleasure and not a full orgasmic experience. Ladies, please chime in here and describe what a full orgasmic experience feels like so all the men know.

So let’s assume that she’s never had an orgasm. You’ve got to become the teacher in this relationship. She is probably the type of woman that just expects you to do whatever you want to do, and she’ll just lie there submissively.

So you need to show her slowly how amazing sex is. I would take some extra time and give her a full body massage. I would spend extra time kissing her and just touching her, everywhere except in her breast and her groin area.

I would take extra time when I go down on her and not only lick her, but to also touch all parts of her body also at the same time. I would also slip one finger inside as I was licking her in order to give her a different experience.

I wouldn’t ask her if she is coming. I would just continually do all the things that I know bring pleasure to a woman, and I would ask her, “how does that feel for you? Are you enjoying this? How do you like the pressure? I want to please you and I want to make you feel amazing.” Don’t say, “I want to give you an orgasm.” Don’t tell her you want her to scream and yell. Just say, “I want to make you feel wonderful. Okay?”

And take your time. Allow her to open up and allow her to see sex in an entirely different light. Don’t expect the magical orgasm right away. Don’t expect her to open up immediately. Your only job is to show her – through a soothing, relaxing, attentive sexual session – just how great sex can be.

Another way to do it, too, is when you’re having sex with her, is to do the opposite of what the pump and dumpers have done. Hold her really close to you so she can feel the tightness and feel the sensuality of sex, and then grind in very slowly as you pull her close to you. That way your pubic bone is actually massaging her clit at the same time. By doing that and staying deep inside her, you’re going to give her feelings that she has not had before and you’re going to get her to open up. You may actually get her to start having a clitoral orgasm that way, in time.

You are also going to show her a different side of sex, going to show her the sensuality of sex so that she can feel protected, warm, and nurtured during the experience.

Right now, all she feels is used. All she feels is that guys want to get inside, get off, and leave. So you’ve got to deal with the fact that she was with Mr. P & D. You’ve got to be tender and warm, and you’ve got to put absolutely no pressure on her at all.

By following these simple steps, you’re going to make her feel really comfortable, and you’re going to be able to get her to explore herself even more. She’ll surrender herself to you, in time, but you need to be very patient - because the other guys, the Mr. P & Ds, were not patient. It’s your turn to be patient now.

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For many couples considering engagement, a diamond ring is the preferred choice for a ring. It was the preferred choice for Archduke Maximilian of Austria who presented a diamond ring to Mary of Burgandy in 1477, and the diamond wedding ring was first introduced. But there are some who prefer something different or unique. Fortunately, there are a range of choices for those who would like to break with tradition and choose something other than a diamond engagement ring.

The most important aspect for choosing a ring is the symbolism it represents. Rings have long represented a bond between two people. Its shape symbolizes the love and commitment meant to last a lifetime. Rings worn on the left ring finger are associated with the direct connection to the heart, which is why it has become the traditional finger for wedding rings. However, a ring doesn’t necessarily have to be a diamond to represent those sentiments. Take for instance the Royal Family. Sapphire engagement rings were chosen for the Queen Mother, Queen Elizabeth, Princess Anne and Princess Diana. Meanwhile, Princess Sarah Ferguson received a ruby. What means most to a young woman receiving a ring is the thoughtfulness and caring behind it. A ring should represent the appropriate symbolism for a particular couple.

There are many colored gemstones, for example, that have historical associations to love. Red, the warmest color, has long been associated with love. Red symbolizes vitality and confidence – the heart and passion. Red reflects courage and ability to take action without fear of reprisal – a truly good choice for a man who is confident of his lover’s response. The ruby is a red member of the corundum family of minerals. Corundum of any color – blue, pink, yellow – is called a sapphire. Rubies may have a purplish undertone and are rated at 9 on the Moh’s scale. Diamonds are rated at 10 while turquoise is only a 5 or 6.

Who could forget the spectacular engagement ring that Princess Diana chose for herself? The oval blue sapphire weighed an astounding 18 carats surrounded by 14 small diamonds. It was purchased for the hefty price of $65,000. At the time, the rich blue sapphire became an elegant symbol of the couple’s commitment. Blue gemstones, symbolizing spirituality and purity, are also available at less expensive prices in the form of blue spinel, iolite and blue tourmaline.

Symbolizing faithfulness and continuity, green gemstones include not only the emerald, but green garnet or green tourmaline. The emerald is the most valuable type of beryl mineral. Ancients prized it as the symbol of love, rebirth and eternal youth. Some believe that emeralds have healing powers.

A classic alternative, pearl engagement rings represent a timeless choice for couples. When most people think of pearls, they think of a creamy white, luminescent coloring. However, pearls come in a variety of colors, including gold, cream, black, blue, pink and green. Many pearls actually have a main color with a second shade as an overtone or highlight. A white body with pink hues is one of the most expensive and popular pearl colors. It is not unusual to see a natural pearl in an antique or heirloom piece.

The woman who strives to express her own distinctive personality may be a good candidate for an optional engagement ring discussed here.

This type of woman is also one who appreciates the language of jewelry. One of the guiding principles for wearing jewelry is choosing pieces that convey the unique personality of the wearer. Pandora Jewelry’s charm bracelets and complementing jewelry capture the imagination of women who want to create their own style. Each item in the Pandora collection is a handmade Danish design in 14K gold and sterling silver. With more than 600 beads, charms and semiprecious stones from which to choose, no Pandora bracelet is like another. The bracelet’s design allows the wearer to interchange the charms to create a totally unique look. Beads can also be added to necklaces, rings and earrings to make a complete set.

Lewis Jewelers is proud to carry the full line of Pandora Jewelry. Pandora bracelets, Pandora charms and Pandora beads are only a part of the collection. For more information, Lewis Jewelers, 2000 West Stadium Blvd., Ann Arbor, Michigan, 48103, 877-88-LEWIS or visit the website.

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OK, you have broken up with your ex whether he was your boyfriend, your husband or lover. Things have been a little shaky, you have had problems moving on or you just do not want to give up on the relationship.

You know that you still love your ex but you are wondering does your ex still have feelings for you. You want him back but you do not know if he also wants to get back together with you.

You may think men are hard to read when it comes to their feelings and emotions. Yes, we try to keep our emotions in check, but we tend to revert to child-like ways of showing we have feelings for the opposite sex. This is also true in the case we still have feelings for our ex love.

You are looking for some signs that the man you love want to revive the relationship that made both of you so happy in the past. You just want signs that will give you hope, hope that if you both can be back together and once again share your life together.

I am going to list three signs of many that you need to watch for that will give you a hint that your ex still have feelings for you.

3 Signs-Does Your Ex Still Have Feelings For You?

1. Your Ex is Showing Off in Front of You.

No, he may not be doing cartwheels like a child in front of you.

What he will do though is brag about something is he doing or something that makes him look good. He wants your admiration, he wants the same feelings you showed him in the beginning of your relationship. That is a very important sign that he still have feelings for you.

2. Is There a Spark in His Eyes?

Did you notice a “spark” in his eyes when you both started dating?

The next time you talk to your ex face to face, look at his eyes. Do you see the same spark, do you notice his eyes are following you around, is his eyes “smiling”?

It is amazing what a man eyes will tell you when he does not know you are observing them.

The eyes are a “peephole” into a man feelings.

3. Does He Show Up “Accidentally” Where You Are?

If you looking for an obvious sign does your ex still have feelings for you, then this is it.

He is showing up at your regular “hang-outs” because he still has feelings for you and wants to rekindle the relationship. Your regular “hang-outs” could be anywhere that he knows you will be such as the grocery store, mall, park, etc.

The big question is not “does your ex still have feelings for you”, but do you want to get back with your ex. If that is the case, then you need a strategy or plan to get your ex back. It is possible to get back with your ex and be happy again!

Watch Free Videos Here on the first step of getting back with your ex. You may still be wondering Does Your Ex Still Have Feelings For You but you do know that you want to get back with your ex!

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The first known exchange of engagement rings comes down to us from five millenia ago; in ancient Egypt, a band worn on the finger was seen as a symbol of eternal love. In ancient Rome, the acceptance of a ring from a suitor was considered to be a legally binding arrangement and meant that the woman was no longer single.

Even now, engagements rings bring the sacred bond of marriage to mind – they are a way of informing the world about one’s marital status. The traditions surrounding engagement and marriage have changed over time, as have the materials of choice for engagement rings. The biggest change is that men as well as women now wear these rings as a signifier of their love and commitment to their spouse.

The ancient custom of using engagement rings as a token of a binding marriage contract is a bit different than the way that they are regarded today – and unlike today’s engagement rings, they would not be as likely to catch the attention of passers by with their beauty. These rings were, in ancient Rome, simple iron bands. The custom of making rings from precious metals came much later on.

It was not until the 16th century that diamonds began to be used extensively in engagement rings, although diamonds were being mined in India as early as the year 800 AD. At this time, diamonds were exclusively for the very wealthy.

Ever since they were introduced to the world, diamonds were beloved for their brilliance and their durability, second to none among minerals. The word diamond comes from the Greek word for unconquerable, “adamas”. Diamonds were believed to contain magical properties and as such were seen as natural symbols of the bond of marriage.

Diamonds became more widely available in the 1800s and they became much more widely used, especially as a stone for engagement rings.

Although some designs have come and gone over the years, other designs are perennial classics. The diamond solitaire is one which is irresistible to many, with its single beautiful diamond within. The three stone ring has been popular, symbolizing those three little words.

A lot of women opt for stones other than diamonds for their engagement rings, including opals, emeralds and rubies. However, the diamond remains the most popular choice.

As a metal for the band, platinum has become a popular material, despite its expense. There has been a growing demand for titanium and zirconium engagement rings since they are very strong, hypoallergenic and attractive. These metals work well with more modern styles and can be heat treated for unique color effects.

The hardness of these metals lends themselves to tension set diamond engagement rings. With precious metals, this would be much more difficult due to the relative softness of these metals.

The engagement ring is typically worn on the third finger of the left hand, although in some countries the ring is instead worn on the right. This tradition is thought to date back to the ancient Egyptians, who believed that a vein in this finger ran directly to the heart.

Lauren Matthews is a fashion maven and an editor at www.SorellaJewelry.com. Sorella creates personalized jewelry with the names, words, dates and Chinese symbols that matter to you.

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Many ex-boyfriends quotes may be had by questioning your friends. Others use family, loved ones, by reading magazines, books, watching movies or visiting online websites catering to breaking up with boyfriends or lovers.

However we should ask ourselves what are the motives involved in looking for these quotes? Is it guilt, fantasy, nostalgia or plain old can’t let go? Because before looking for ex-boyfriend quotes find out the reason and be clear about why that person is an ex.

As I said previously before anything else, examine the reason. A lot of the time it might be a way of living in the past and not facing up to reality and getting on with your life.

Sometimes it may be good to ask yourself some question, was the ex-boyfriend the type to say I love you? Is that a quote you heard often? Did it mean something when he said it? Most of the time, when we hear those three words and see it quoted somewhere the memories come flooding back.

I ask all the time, what’s the point. Are we so consumed with thoughts of our ex-boyfriends, that any poem or quote we can tie to that person affects our whole being? Life is short and shouldn’t be spent living in the past, love quotes tend to put us in places of security, totally ignoring the reality that exist.

My Grandmother was fond of saying, “You never miss the water till the well run dry.” This may not qualify as an ex-boyfriend quote but as relationships go, it means that when you have someone or something and takes him/ her/ it for granted, when that person or thing is gone you then realize how much you miss them.

Its ironic how sometimes these quotes set you thinking and you realize how much you miss your ex-boyfriend but pride and stubbornness is keeping you from calling him up and giving the relationship another try. I always say go for it what is there to lose, you are already in misery. All of the ex-boyfriends quotes in the world wouldn’t bring you out of the miserable state you are in. It surely wouldn’t hurt to at least try to get that aspect of your life straightened out, once and for all. Then move on.

Strive on many occasions wherever possible to get out and about. Don’t sit at home moping and wasting your life away pining for something that possibly will never return. You owe it to yourself to live for you, for the moment and for the future.Not that I am advocating that those little quotes don’t mean anything but it helps to get over your ex-boyfriend and move on with your life.

Occasionally, the desire maybe to get your ex-boyfriend back cause you still love him and there are some eBooks and other books out there which show you how and it wouldn’t hurt to read one or two if its your desire. You may find some pretty good quotes in them. It certainly couldn’t be worse than how you are feeling.

Here’s a great little eBook that along with some ex-boyfriends quotes you may have found, shows how to win your ex back, a nice little read. Go check it out.

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