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Hope everyone is having an amazing weekend.

Yesterday we went to Malibu and everyone had a task at hand.

To have fun like a kid and overcome all fears of approaching women.

It was a huge success and the task was something you would have never imagined.

I will post some of it this week on you tube so stay tuned…..you will be shocked at what we did.

Today we are heading to the Santa Monica Farmers market as well as Venice beach. Till tomorrow.

Today I want to share with everyone a great question I got from someone in an email. I’m sure this kind of stuff is applicable to many of you who are talking on the internet, so let’s talk about this right now.

Client: Hi David. First of all, I’d like to take a second to kiss your ass for opening a whole new world to me. Basically, your Men’s Mastery Series and blogs are amazing, but I’m sure you already know this, so on with my question.

Last I was IMing a girl that I met through a friend and eventually started talking to through MySpace. It was the second time I have talked to her through AIM and I was planning on getting her number so I could ask her out over the phone (as you recommend.)

As we were talking about boring things, she put me in the position to compliment her. Don’t get me wrong: I love to compliment someone when it is deserved, but it was just so blatantly obvious. I felt like I was giving all of my power away.

Here is one example of our conversation:

Her: So are you actually going to get some work done tonight?

Me: I’ll try, but some crazy girl keeps IMing me… haha.

Her: So why don’t you just ignore her?

So now the nice guy inside wants me to say, “because I really enjoy talking to you,” but that just feels too clingy. Plus, I’m not sure if she still views me just as a friend or as someone she is actually interested in. So I just ended up saying, “nah.”

How would you have handled the situation?

David: Tim, I agree with you: it’s best to give compliments when they are deserved. However, in the example you sent me, it looks like you are the one who really put yourself in that situation.

Don’t worry so much about whether or not you give your power away (just don’t do it constantly), but focus more on keeping the vibe fun, playful and exciting. That’s the real art of flirting.

So in your situation, there are multiple ways you could have handled it. You could:

1. Call her out on it

2. Ignore it and give a very open-ended/vague and neutral answer – basically circling around the pot – this creates some form of intrigue

3. Give her an answer that makes her want to know more – using curiosity/intrigue

4. Give her a “conditional compliment”

So here’s how your situation could have played out:

Her: So are you actually going to get some work done tonight?

Me: I’ll try, but some crazy girl keeps IMing me… haha.

Her: So why don’t you just ignore her?

Me:

1. Hmmmm… I think someone is fishing for a compliment here… :p :p :p

2. [yes, just give a smiley face. Do not answer… and let her ask another question]

3. Well, I don’t know what it is… but… there’s something about this girl that makes me want to talk to her more. [you give her the compliment but you keep it vague to keep your power]

4. Because for a lawyer [insert whatever stereotype she is], she’s pretty fun [insert the opposite quality expected from the stereotype]

I hope these suggestions help you. As you can see, you are just vibing based on what she tells you. Your “nice guy” response would be fine as well as long as you come from a position of power and self-respect. The woman can tell from the OVERALL conversation if you are you just trying to please her or if you truly mean what you tell her.

That’s more important that the exact response you give to the woman fishing for compliments. There’s nothing wrong with giving free compliments once in a while – you just can’t come from the wrong place.

Contact me again if you have any more questions. If you want me to go deeper with something, we can set up some form of phone or email coaching.

Have a great weekend!

If you have any questions at all please send them my way and I will use them in newsletters in the future.

I really enjoying hearing from all of you!

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Women, girls, babes or not-so-hot babes all behave the same. You, as a man, will always be tested and there is no place you can run and hide. Instead of turning these ladies down all the time, learn how to turn these challenges into a fantastic opportunity for you to show your manly power and time to control her. Not everyone can tell exactly how women test men, but if you know how to handle her sneaky ‘tests’, you will leave her begging more for you.

When a woman leaves you

So you are in a pub chatting with this smashingly gorgeous lady. 5 minutes later, she decides to walk away and leave you for “a sec”. If you are an idiot, you would definitely have left that butterfly flitting off to another guy’s arm. Be quick and follow her. She is actually testing if you are really interested in her. Just remember not to do this more than twice or it might make you look like a lost puppy. Don’t stalk her around he pub. Just linger around her and she will give you 10 points for passing the test.

When a woman picks up an argument

Women love to use this technique. To do so, they will simply pick up an argument with someone at your presence and test to see if you would stand up for her. Don’t wait for her to tear the other person’s hair out before taking action. Instead, upon noticing this, be the superhero every little girl adores and try to defend her before things turn ugly. Be the peace maker and protect her from any verbal and/or physical abuse.

When a woman says she don’t love you

When she says she don’t love you no more, she doesn’t mean it. Don’t be the jerk and start commenting on how irrational and impractical she is. She needs some kind of affirmation when she says she don’t love you. She needs YOU to assure her that you really love her. Prove her that she is wrong and tell her again and again that you love her. For her, she believes that a little excitement might bring some spark to the relationship. So make sure that you try to understand her words. Keeping her assured of your love will prove to her that you are really The One.

When a woman gets mad

When your woman gets angry, you’d better figure out what to do quickly. Most of the time, women use this technique to test if you really know how to make her happy. Angry women are a horror and with all the mood swings to top it all up, your life will be a nightmare! The trick to bringing her lost smile is NOT to apologize, but instead to throw in a witty statement. Something like, “Aww, my little girl’s throwing a tantrum.” It might sound sick to you, but trust me that girls like to be babied-talk at times. Do this and you will score full marks for your test!

These are just some of the tests that you might want to look out for. It is impossible to keep your eyes and ears peeled for all these tests, but keeping them in mind the next time you are out with your babe would definitely help. Time to score a big fat A for this guy-test!

Michael Dat specialises in dating techniques for men. Visit http://www.datingquestionsformen.com for more dating and seduction tips.

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Some men are able to lure women with just a snap of a finger, while others just have nada luck on getting any girls. What is it to special about these men that every woman goes gaga over them? As we all know, every woman deserve a good man but not just an ordinary sort of man. This is why sometimes being ‘good’ is not good enough. It is not a wonder why some 40% of the men in the world are losing out when it comes to getting their women. It’s time to stop chasing women and make them chase YOU.

Have you ever wondered why Jessica dumped you for bad-boy Robert? You are a good guy, bring her flowers, always punctual for your dates and send her home on time. But why is it that you lose out to some jerk? This is where most guys have missed out. Women in nature are NOT attracted to jerks. It is just that jerks happen to have confidence oozing out of them at all times. Being around the presence of a confident man makes a woman feel secured and she would definitely not need to worry about fooling herself.

Speaking of confidence, this would also mean how well you are able to present yourself. This is where you think twice about the clothes you are going to wear and the kind of hairdo that you are planning to set. Not everyone loves changes, but getting a new hairdo might make her notice something nice about you.

Sometimes, good looks don’t pay at all. You might be a replica of Brad Pitt and women might give you the hot stares, but if your attitude is all arrogant and cold, no women will be brave enough to approach you. Instead, if you are blessed with good looks use this opportunity and top the good looks with some interesting attitude. You do not have to be goody-too-shoes but sprinkle some charm and all the ladies will start saying hi to you.

The attitude that you carry can be reflected on the way you speak. Most of the time women are more attracted to men that have an element of mystery in them. Keeping certain information sealed is definitely good, as it will make the woman glued to you as she slowly finds out more about you.

At the same time, as much as you love to tell her about your life success story, try to avoid this. It might seem to her that you are bragging and women hate men who brag. You definitely would not need to brag to her to make her notice how ‘good’ you are. If you are really good at something, the women will notice it, so stop bragging unnecessarily.

These are just some of the basic things that you would want to keep in mind when it comes to making women want you. You might not receive the desired result overnight, so give it a chance and don’t be surprised if the blonde babe you have been eyeing on says hi to you.

Michael Dat specialises in dating techniques for men. Visit http://www.datingquestionsformen.com for more dating and seduction tips.

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Creating humor is a very powerful way of making women attracted to you like bees to honey. A sprinkle of laughter can tweak the entire mood and if you get lucky, love might even blossom right before your very eyes. The only problem is that, men have always failed (again and again) when it comes to bringing a smile to a lady’s face. There is no rabbit-in-the-hat trick here and you do not have to be a genius to figure the theories. It just takes simple steps on how to make women laugh, trust me.

Now, you must be thinking that jokes will definitely do the trick. It all wraps up on the kind of jokes that you intend to share with her. At the same time, learn to be careful with the choice of jokes. If you are not so lucky, you might see her stomping out of the restaurant.

With that in mind, try to avoid being the next Charlie Chaplin. Slapstick routines do not work so do not even try to imitate good old Charlie. Furthermore, slapsticks will just make you look and behave like an idiot, which is definitely a turn off for most girls. Remember to refrain from doing this at all times if you are really serious into making girls go head over heels for you.

If you are really into dirty jokes, try to avoid sharing these jokes with her too. Keeping things clean during the conversation is definitely advisable. There might be a few exceptions, but most girls abhor these dirty jokes. Strike off any stories and jokes that have got to do with genitals. A tiny bit of sexual content would be ok, but a story that is 100% about genitals is horrifying disgusting. Now, you definitely not want to look like a pervert in front of her would you?

Jokes aside, when it comes to conversing with her, it is always important to note her body language. She might get a tiny bit uncomfortable with your jokes, and when you see this, try to take a step back and get serious. It is definitely good to know the things that she loves and likes. Do not ever make fun of the things that are special to her or it will make it seem as if you are just mocking her.

It all sums up on how well you are able to carry yourself in front of her. Wearing a smile at all times will create a pleasant mood and will just perk up the entire night. By doing so, your lady will see you as a happy and cheerful person, which is definitely a good start to make all other girls trailing behind you.

Looking sober, serious or grumpy will not help. No women would want to hang out with a grumpy miserable dude.

When you are able to make a woman laugh, it just means that you have scored it, BIG time. By laughing together, you are actually creating many good memories that will definitely linger on. She might even ask you out for a second date!

Making a woman laugh is incredibly easy. Try these tips the next time you ask a girl out for a date. It’s time to share more laughter and smiles.

Michael Dat specialises in dating techniques for men. Visit http://www.datingquestionsformen.com for more dating and seduction tips.

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What is so difficult about picking up the receiver and dialing a number? If only calling the person whom you are dating is as easy as calling your mum! How often you should call when dating is a very tricky question. Some would consider that it is best to call their date frequently while others think otherwise. There is no verdict to this, but keep these tips in mind and you can be assured of a happy relationship ahead.

Both men and women have different opinions when it comes to picking up the phones to call each other. Women in general love to talk, hence it is not a wonder that they would expect the guys the call and check on them. This is in comparison with guys who tend to be less expressive. Most women would not hesitate to talk to the person she is interested in on frequent basis. Since guys don’t really fancy phone calls, does this mean that guys are excused when they don’t call the girls they are dating?

The number one rule to dating is never to call each other every single day. Allowing a time lapse of 3 days would be good, more often that not, doing so will create some kind of sexual tension. If she calls you even before you get to call her, it means that she is dying to hear your voice. Even a simple hello would definitely mean something.

Men in general do not really enjoy long frequent chitchats on the phone. So if you are wondering why your conversations are only 5 minutes long, this explains why. This also shows that men and women view the telephone very differently. Girls, just remember not to get upset when your guy says that he has to go and end the phone call abruptly.

Some girls might play hard-to-get and would eventually ignore your phone calls too. So, if she didn’t call you back, maybe it is time to make your first move and start calling her. She might ignore those phone calls, hence use the answering machine and drop her a nice message. Remember, she also needs to look graceful enough for you. Calling the guy back will make her look desperate and lonely, and as such, do not expect a speedy reply from her.

Giving each other space and time is definitely encouraged. Girls might get a tiny bit overprotective over certain things, and tend to call their dates so frequent that it becomes increasingly annoying. Be practical about it and allow your date to have some time alone too.

Phone calls are a great way to cure your loneliness and longing for that special someone. But overdoing it will just make you look desperate and in fact it will just scare your date. The best is just to let nature take its course and pray that you would not have to be the first one to make the phone call after the date.

Michael Dat specialises in dating techniques for men. Find out how to call a woman to ask her out.

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